| Medical
I read with interest the article on this subject in the May edition
of the Gay Times and would relate my recent experience with Norwich Union.
I am 48 years of age and have lived with my current partner for 18 years.
We recently moved home and I took out a new mortgage. I was quoted good
terms for life insurance by our mortgage adviser at the Estate Agent,
'Your Move', who was arranging my mortgage. He filled in the relevant
paperwork and at that point the only questions asked were to do with
smoking, drinking, my weight and height. I was expecting to be asked
to have a health check as for my height I am overweight.
Sure enough a few weeks later I received a letter asking me to attend
an appointment with a doctor arranged by the insurance company. I went
along and the doctor had to fill in a 4-page document. There were a number
of questions about my lifestyle; here are the main two to do with my
sexuality/HIV status.
1) Was I homosexual, bi-sexual, or a drug user?
As my partner and I are very open about our sexuality in all our walks
of life, I confirmed I was gay.
2) Had I ever taken or been asked to take an HIV test and if so what
was my status?
I stated NO, as I never had.
After the medical I returned home and waited to hear by how much they
were going to increase the premium. I didn't hear anything for a further
two weeks, and then the letter came asking me to see the same doctor
for an HIV test, of course at no cost to myself! I complained to my mortgage
adviser about Norwich Union's approach, and it was at this point I found
out 'Your Move' Estate Agents is owned by Norwich Union. 
I ignored the letter and did not attend the appointment at their doctors.
I rang my bank Nat West who quoted me for life insurance over the phone.
I filled in a Direct Debit form and the cover was arranged, NO QUESTIONS.
Norwich Union certainly didn't quote me 'Happy', as their advertising
campaign would suggest.
Yours, Dave Llewellyn.
Impaired Life
When my partner and I bought a house with a joint
mortgage back in 1989 we both had to complete 'lifestyle questionnaires'
and both had to undergo medicals and HIV tests. Although we were awarded
life assurance the premium was weighted. A monthly premium of over £40 on mortgage of £26k!
In 1994 after my partner and I had separated I was in the process of
buying another property, the process was dragging on when I found out
the only delay was the life assurance. Through a friend of a colleague
who worked in the field I was advised to withdraw the application as
I was on the verge of being refused and would have to declare the fact
from there on. On consultation with the legal department at THT I wrote
to the ABI and asked for a search. It transpired that due to the application
made with my partner I had been placed on the 'lives at risk' register.
The ABI informed me that I had been placed on the register in error,
and my name had now been removed. They also reimbursed my search fee. 
Rob Satchell
HIV Test!
I read your article on 'applying for life cover' and feel it reflects
my situation perfectly.
My partner and I have just bought our first property- we have moved
in and are very happy with the whole process, which was through a Housing
Trust Part-Buy Scheme, as we were treated so fairly as a gay couple.
With not even one raised eyebrow or personal questions etc.
Then came the life assurance. As first time buyers
we really didn't have a clue about how to do things like this so we
went along with advice from an independent financial adviser – who
is a friend of the family, so can be trusted etc. We were asked personal
questions in the life assurance policy form, which due to the circumstance
we didn't really mind answering, although we felt they were completely
unnecessary and intrusive we thought we HAD to answer. 
Now my partner has received a letter from the firm - (this is probably
now 2 months later) saying he has to go and get an HIV test, even telling
him where his appointment should be made, and who with. My partner, Chris,
is understandably very upset and angry by this. He feels, as I'm sure
the majority of people do, that the timing of when the whole process
of taking an HIV test should start is up to the individual concerned
and not some heartless corporate company who just want to increase premiums.
I read with interest that single straight men have
no trouble getting life assurance for up to £100,000. Since we bought with a part-buy
scheme, we are at present only buying 25% which is £63,000 (That's £63,000
total mortgage between the two of us). Surely we, as two young (22 and
24) men, should be treated better than this? 
Paul |